26 Sep 2007   Friends With Cancer - Practical Ideas For Help and Encouragement                                                                                                                                                                    Articles      Carin g Hansen http://ezinearticles.com/?Friends-With-Cancer---Practical-Ideas-For-Help-and-Encouragement&id=746087 I often get asked for ideas on how to encourage female friends going through cancer treatment. Here are some ideas that I believe  you will find helpful.  First of all…be specific. A willingness to help in any way she needs is often overwhelming. She may not have the energy to address  and think through what all her needs are. Take the time to look at her home, family, medical and social needs. Then give her a small list of  things you can either do or help with.  Second, if you have a personal care skill such as hairdressing, manicuring or massaging, offer your services for a session free of  charge. Come to her home if at all possible. Any of these things will delight her! All of us know there is nothing like a little pampering when  we don’t feel our best. If your time is limited or you live a distance from your friend...the following list of items can be given individually or in a lovely gift  basket. It is wise to choose lotions and potions that are fragrance free since many cancer patients have a low tolerance to odors during  treatment. You might also want to ask a family member if she has any skin sensitivities or allergies. Include organic products as much as  possible. Because they do not contain chemicals and preservatives they will be better tolerated.  1. Nightcaps: homemade or purchased  This is a wonderful gift for your friend if her treatment will cause her to lose her hair. Be sure the fabric is soft and washable and  that any elastic is covered and not too tight. Ask her what pretty color or pattern she would like if you are making the nightcap…or  surprise her! 2. Nightgowns or robes that open in the front  Ease in dressing is extremely important both during any hospital stays and once she is home.  3. Extra moisturizing body lotion  Remember to keep the ingredients fragrance free and organic if possible 4. A natural bristle hair brush that has extra soft bristles Again, this is if your friend will lose her hair with treatment. She (or you) can lightly brush her head to stimulate healthy new growth  AND it feels great!  5. Purchase a copy of "A Women’s Cancer Journey Primer" It is a simple read where she will find support and help in beauty related issues  6. Lastly, how about purchasing a beautiful bouquet of silk flowers to match the colors of her home?  She won’t have an allergic reaction to them and no one will have to remember to water them!  Carin Hansen was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 40. After a long battle she emerged victorious and began a one-on-one  wardrobe and beauty consulting business for other women journeying through cancer. She has been a model, actress, talent agency owner, benefit founder, certified acting/modeling instructor, writer, speaker and passionate cancer advocate. It is important to remember that Carin is not a physician and does not subscribe to or recommend any particular medical procedure or alternative treatment. She strongly urges  you to consult with your Primary Physician, Oncologist and/or Surgeon before implementing any of her curriculum.    Carin g Hansen Home, Books, Resources, Recommended Products, Articles, Blog, Homemade Beauty, Support, Services, About, Contact Us, Site Map, Newsletters